My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am quite shocked that someone could have the nerve to fire an employee for "putting kids, wife and family ahead of the company" - what an utter lack of shame and empathy. It does indeed sound like parting ways with such an employer was the better option. Much respect for your steadfastness in such a situation. Prayers and thoughts from across the big pond, dantes.

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