albatros wrote:
In a world so male, is not very common for men to be able to tell other men who look good or are handsome. In addition, in a world of wild competition, where applies the law of the jungle, the survival of the fittest, it is weird to hear someone telling things how "you can", "belief", "not despair". 
It's true - for some reason, this does not really happen out in the real world.  And yet, I truly believe that this support is what attracts guys to this site and then keeps them here.  At least in my experience, when I first arrived on the board, it was challenging for me to find the words to give a compliment.  Obviously, I'm not having any problems with this now  

The best news of all is that when we go out into the real world and pay a compliment or give support to others, people receive it much in the same way the they do here.  I believe I am more supportive of others due to skills that I have learned and developed by participating in this forum.