I'll be honest man, I've been following this journey for a while. Big fan of your stache in particular, it's pretty stellar. All of it really fits you well man. Luckily, like jasjes says, most people won't even notice the issues you talk about. I know with my patchy beard, most people tell me they don't notice any of the problem spots I have (Besides the obvious connectors and philtrum), until I tell them. So don't worry so much, and own it. It's your beard, and it's unique to you.