I have tried many different beard oils and balms and washes. I stumbled upon Badass Beard Care. They offer darn near everything you will need. Oils balms, waxes, shampoos, body washes. I particularly like the Original scent. Vanilla and sandelwood. Oil is perfect consistency and lasts 4-5 hours before you'll need a change. For just an everyday soap i use on my face beard body and all those other places is grandpas pine tar soap. Now this stuff is awesome, doesnt dry you or your beard out. Smells a little woodsy but scent disapates fairly quick.