you shouldnt let this negativ stuff get close to you
even if its coming from people like your mother

you HAVE TO DO WHAT YOU WANT
dont give a %%+# about negativ comments

my mother for example tells me everyday that my beard looks like %%+#, but I just don't care
because it is your body and you can do whatever the %@*+ you want to do !

stay strong, never shave or trimm if its not YOUR decision
those people who say negativ stuff are only envious of the beard or can't accept individuality

cheers