Sounds like you have had a lot going on for the last 24 hours.

With regards to facebook - I have been quite abstemious as to what I choose to share - realising that you can't control what people see any more, try to focus on the many good comments, dont let the one bad one ruin it for you. As for the negative comment - you could always unfriend them but this might not be the best tack to take - it depends on how much their friendship means to you. it might be better to cool off and write a reply that you can live with whatever the consequences may be...

As for family.. never easy and way to complex to help here.. And I guess from your tone that there are other issues bubbling under the surface too. The problem is that these things are best addressed face to face and with the distance involved - unless you are on facetime (or similar) messages can get lost, misunderstood etc and even then one party may cut the other one off!

May I suggest you take your time to get back into a better place, even avoid any further confrontation for now it possible - you now know what the issues are and you can calmly plan the way ahead. Even then things may not come off as you might hope - but at least you tried.. Good luck

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