Thanks Tom. It does help I can talk to you guys about this stuff. I will trim the neck line but only after 15 weeks. I've read how to tail the stache but I just have one question. Is there a time that it maybe gets too long? And if so when. If I lay mine flat down it touches my bottom lip. I've been combing to the sides and applying wax to keep in place, I was just wondering about when maybe it's ok to trim it. Thanks for the words of advice.