But like everything else, grooming and cleanliness is a must. Obviously.

Why is it cleanliness for a woman but it's masuline for a man? Is cleanliness a feminine trait? Last time I checked theres nothing cleanly about having thousands of hairs growing around your mouth and nose. And honestly most men seem to sweat more so wouldn't that make our hairy armpits and ASS even less clean than a womans? I understand arbitrary beauty standards, but do we really need to be holding women on a higher "cleanliness" standard than our own? I don't care how masculine having less "cleanliness" is, I will never expect a woman to clean/groom herself more than I do. For me it's more of a "expect from others what you expect of yourself." When I stopped seeing shaving as a need for myself I stopped seeing shaving as a need for anybody.