I'm a pretty hairy man and do trim the arm pits every so often and the !#%%* area but that's because I also sweat a lot while working outside and it seems to keep the stink down, sorry for being so candid. Everything else is as it should be, when I was a college athlete I would shave my chest and stomach (legs once) because I thought it would attract the ladies but in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter because if a woman cares that much about body hair then I want nothing to do with her.

All that being said; my current lady, best friend, and love of my life shaves her legs and armpits but often times I tell her it isn't a huge deal to me. She is half Cuban and has some dark hair but some stubble doesn't bother me. I like that she doesn't fret over it, private areas are usually trimmed and only really shaves the legs and everything else exposed if we are going out. There is definitely a double standard between feminine beauty and masculinity but we all walk a fine line between societal norms and freedom. If she let her legs or armpits go I would be a little concerned but not a deal breaker or turnoff at all. We are human after all, it is unnatural to remove what our genetic material has given us.