Over time you can train these to sweep back a bit. That will come with length.

BTW...I'm 47 too. I too have embarked on the journey for a full beard. I formerly had a goatee for years and have that part mastered. If you have time, check out my post:

http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/topic/36637/47-years-old-and-trying-again#.VMFe2UfF_C8

Tom