Hey sj - welcome to the board!

You'll get a variety of advice on what to do with your stache on this board - but it basically comes down to three options:
1) Trim it at the lip (or lower - some guys trim at the level where the lips meet.
2) Let it go full walrus
3) Train it to grow to the sides - this doesn't mean that it has to be styled. If you want more info on this process, check out the 'taming the wild stache' thread - there a link to it in my signature just below.

Also - if you want so more directed feedback and encouragement, consider posting some pics - the tutorial in this link will help:

http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/topic/30837/Tutorial-Take-Store-Insert-your-Pictures#.VL5Z60fF9KY