I've had a beard of various lengths, shapes and styles for about 7 years now.  I can't grow a yeard because I work in a corporate office.  Currently my beard is about 6 months old.  I prefer all natural grooming products (nothing with words I cannot read) and here are my personal favorites:

Beard Shampoo/Wash: HonestAmish, Dr. Bronner's Bar Soaps and Grandpa's Pine Tar Soap
Beard Oil: Doc Elliott Serem, HonestAmish, The Beard Baron, Texas Beard Co. and Front Porch Culture 333 (Etsy)
Beard Balm: Doc Elliott, HonestAmish, Rockriver Hair Supply (Etsy)
Beard Wax: HonestAmish and Doc Elliott Balm which can be used as a wax
Beard Comb: Kent...all sizes
Beard Brush: Kent boar bristle
Pomade: Rockriver Hair Supply and Honest Concoctions (both on Etsy)

"When in doubt...grow it out"