Looking at some of these products, I would highly recommend avoiding the synthetic "beard washes" and "beard shampoos." They contain Iodopropynyl butylcarbamate which is horrible for you and even banned some places. Also avoid using anything with petroleum jelly - as it seals moisture OUT of your facial hair making it dry and brittle.
Here is a good article on proper beard care with more info:
http://themodcabin.com/all-natural-beard-care/