I was just using Coconut Oil on mine and brushing it down, but I got the beard wax I ordered in the mail yesterday. Tried it out this morning and it definitely helps lay those strays down. I've been growing 2.5 months but I keep it trimmed shorter, so the problem of those strays tends to stick with me. It is Honest Amish Slick Beard Wax. Has a pleasant scent, is all natural ingredients, and doesn't take much at all on a shorter beard.