Here is what you do first.. Respect Jasjes because he is very wise and has been a leader of this board for a long time. He has had a great mustache and he grew that beast naturally long before we were both born. 2nd- Eat healthy, drink plenty of water, keep physically active and get good sleep. 3rd- Let TIME to its thing. You want to have a beard overnight and I was the same way believe me. Natural oils would be the only thing I would put on your face.