there is no place to buy jojoba oil around here and so have been using something called "argon oil" which i think is actually a very small part argon oil with lots of other ingredients thrown in. it does make the beard softer and probably a little more moldable. i've ordered jojoba off amazon. cant wait to try it. have also tried clubman wax - sucks and this stuff called "got2bglued" which is quite good but i have not mastered yet. cant wait to check out this jojoba which i understand is actually a wax with a ph similar to the skin's