I think you have the dark haired version of my front.
If I brush my mustache down it looks a lot like yours.

For mustache training:
I am not a fan of got2b. Too stiff and unnatural.
I like honest Amish as a starter wax, and for quick waxing.
For more hold (but more work) try Mans Face Stuff or Oregon Wild Hair. (Owh comes with my fave brush).

I have found that oiling before waxing reduces hair pulling.

Check out the progress of my first beard attempt