"so ive grown out my moustache for a while now and i let the rest of my facial hair grow for a little bit too but not as long as my moustache. what should i do with all this guys? 
should i just keep the moustache and shave the rest? 
should i just shave the moustache and keep the rest?
should i just trim all of it?
or should i just shave it all off?"

That's without a doubt a great 'stache.  I would not take that out for anything.  As for the rest of it I guess that's kind of up to you.  If you've got the time and place I'd say let that grow out and see what happens.  Allow yourself eight to twelve weeks.  I think you'll find success.