Barba wrote:
My woman says that people who don't fight - don't love.
  
I can agree with this and my wife does as well. We are pretty open and speak our minds about each other in front of others if we need to and do not care what others think of our tiffs at the time. BUT we get it over quickly and move on. Some of HER friends wonder about this. We wonder what her friends and husbands say to each other behind closed doors, since they always seem to be lovey dovey in public, LOL!