Hey:
I use a beeswax on my mustache, and leave it natural enough nobody would know it is on, except my Gordon Setter, and she loves the smell of it. It just lays to the side, and doesn't look wild. My mustache does its own thing, and I don't like that part. I don't know what hair gel is available in the UK. It won't take much for you. It's laying down for the most part now. I just think the stache is on the cusp of laying down. I can see a change from even last week. What do you think? I have looked at all your pictures. Like they say out west here: "You clean up pretty good." I don't know how much your cheeks will fill in. I know that at this point, I wouldn't do anything. Maybe later, but not now. As far as enjoying the beard, after I got my start, it didn't change who I was at all, I just felt more complete somehow. Now, I know I would feel bare naked without it. There are a couple of guys I keep up with on the board. You are one I look forward to each time you come by. Great to have you around, Shan! I am looking forward to your look as it continues. Tom