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        <![CDATA[ I just had a guy try to add me as a friend on Yuku...he does not post to the beard board and I had never heard of him before...so I just politely
&quot;declined&quot; his request.  He then sent me a private message that basically questioned my Christianity simply because I declined his friend request. 
Is it considered rude and inconsiderate to not accept a friend request (even if you don&#39;t have a remote clue as to who they are)??  Looking for feedback... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">alanbell1966 wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  I just had a guy try to add me as a friend on Yuku...he does not post to the beard board and I had never heard of him before...so I just politely
  &quot;declined&quot; his request. He then sent me a private message that basically questioned my Christianity simply because I declined his friend request.
  Is it considered rude and inconsiderate to not accept a friend request (even if you don&#39;t have a remote... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
			<link>http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/reply/68680/t/accepting-rejecting-friends-.html#reply-68680</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Rude? No, not at all. Adding random people as friends does not benefit either party involved. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 17:23:54 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
			<link>http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/reply/68619/t/accepting-rejecting-friends-.html#reply-68619</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I remembered this thread when I saw this. Enjoy!
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">AndyJ wrote:</strong>
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  Don&#39;t worry about it, Alan. It&#39;s not rude to decline a friend request from somebody you don&#39;t know. I look at it this way - if a stranger came up
  to me and said he wanted to be my friend, I wouldn&#39;t blindly just say &quot;OK&quot;. I&#39;d say &quot;Tell me about yourself, and let me get to know
  you better first.&quot;
</blockquote>These were my toughts...and &quot;GOOD DAD&quot;, it does appear he... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (alanbell1966)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 11:00:26 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
			<link>http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/reply/66317/t/accepting-rejecting-friends-.html#reply-66317</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ No it&#39;s not rude if you don&#39;t know who they are, He could just be trying to build up his rating. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 09:36:02 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
			<link>http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/reply/66283/t/accepting-rejecting-friends-.html#reply-66283</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Don&#39;t worry about it, Alan. It&#39;s not rude to decline a friend request from somebody you don&#39;t know. I look at it this way - if a stranger came up
to me and said he wanted to be my friend, I wouldn&#39;t blindly just say &quot;OK&quot;. I&#39;d say &quot;Tell me about yourself, and let me get to know you
better first.&quot; ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
			<link>http://jefffsbeardboard.yuku.com/reply/66260/t/accepting-rejecting-friends-.html#reply-66260</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ There&#39;s always people with warped minds and views out there. Don&#39;t think too much about it man. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 19:46:57 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ doesn&#39;t sound rude to me. just sounds like you have a self righteous @$$wipe trying to judge you. ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ If they didn&#39;t even send you a message in regards to who they were, then no, I wouldn&#39;t consider it rude. I&#39;d do the same.
<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 02:23:33 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ accepting/rejecting "friends"  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I just had a guy try to add me as a friend on Yuku...he does not post to the beard board and I had never heard of him before...so I just politely
&quot;declined&quot; his request.  He then sent me a private message that basically questioned my Christianity simply because I declined his friend request. 
Is it considered rude and inconsiderate to not accept a friend request (even if you don&#39;t have a remote clue as to who they are)??  Looking for feedback... ]]></description>

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